The dead die in us for the second time, when the passage of time pushes them away from our memory and we begin to forget their features, their characteristics and their voice. Time covers our memories in fog and one day we feel the sadness of not being able to evoke, except very vaguely, what that being we loved so much was like in life.
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Pls forgive my rudeness here, my English is poor whereas I’m learning it, I just couldn’t quite follow this sentence “what that being we loved so much was like in life.” it seems a bit tricky to me. Appreciate if you can help me on this, TIA!🙏😊
Yes, Raymond. The gradual forgetting of specific details such as the voice, physiognomy and joy of our deceased loved ones is, to a large extent, an adaptation mechanism of our brain. This process helps alleviate the acute pain of loss and allows us to adapt to a life without that person, avoiding the pain of remembering them.. roughly that’s what it’s about.
Thanks for your interesting question
Ah, I got it, completely, Thank you so much for being patient with me, Buddy, (Sorry that I don’t know your name yet) God bless you!🙏
Sincerely,
— Raymond
Ok, thanks. This is my real name, Raymond.
This is a concept that I find myself struggling with often. Thank you for posting it so I know I am not alone.
Exactly. Thank you for sharing your experience!
Best,